<p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.5em; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; font-size: 1em; text-align: justify; text-decoration: inherit;">　</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 1em; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; text-align: justify; text-decoration: inherit;">　<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 14px; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; text-decoration: inherit;">二胎政策一出，关于要不要生二胎的讨论甚嚣尘上，很多人都在说着经济条件、教育资源方面的“大”问题，可我不禁想起的，却是前几天带宝宝出去玩时见到的简单一幕。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.5em; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; 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padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　上周末带宝宝去商场，看到有捞鱼的项目，宝宝便千方百计要进入对他而言很高的栅栏，非要去玩一玩。一岁的小宝，要捞到游来游去的小鱼儿，技术含量实在太高，捞鱼也就变成了倒水、洒水、傻笑、叽里呱啦表达自己不知所云小情绪的活动。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　旁边还有一个家庭在玩，男孩大概四五岁的样子，妈妈在专心致志地玩手机，爸爸在看孩子捞鱼。父母的打扮都很时尚，从背的包包、戴的手表，手里甩的车钥匙串也能看出来收入不会太低，至少也是中产。但从我们坐下开始，这对儿父母的唠叨、抱怨便从未停止。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　“诶诶，你好好捞，衣服袖子都湿了。”是妈妈。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　“你过来，这边鱼多，快捞。”是爸爸。</span></p><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　“我来吧，你看你，才捞那几个。”爸爸说着一把将小网子夺过去，“捕鱼神将”爸爸捞了几网以后，池里的鱼基本没有了，他心满意足的坐回去，得意地告诉儿子说“你要这样捞”。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　男孩则一脸寥落地接过小网。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　爸爸继续甩着钥匙串，妈妈继续盯着自己的玫瑰金玩游戏，但是唠叨依然在继续。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　这边呢，我家宝宝虽然捞不到鱼，但依靠我们偶尔的救济和配合，还在欢实地奋斗着。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　过一会，那边的小男孩突然扔下小网，说不玩了，要回家。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　他爸爸瞟了他一眼，立马严肃地对自己的儿子说：</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(73, 68, 41);">“不行，钱都交了，要玩够半个小时。不然钱就白花了，不能浪费！我告诉你，你今天如果不好好玩，以后就一次都别来玩了。”</span></span></p><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　小男孩听后，沉默一阵，小声说：“我衣服湿了，冷。”</span></p><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　“冷也不行，谁让你不穿好罩衣。继续捞！” 爸爸严厉地告诫。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　小男孩拿起小网子，蹲下慢慢地捞着。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　妈妈还在丧心病狂地玩手机，对发生的一幕，熟视无睹。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/SyQbFOWHaNdYANvSGBONibUaJjsYSgVyzzeLLt8wcmXwqw7icriaVNiculKNDMJ8L5O5QKjONY28zC0yGPto7QpRaA/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="0.6653919694072657" data-w="" url="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/SyQbFOWHaNdYANvSGBONibUaJjsYSgVyzzeLLt8wcmXwqw7icriaVNiculKNDMJ8L5O5QKjONY28zC0yGPto7QpRaA/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" file_id="400379420" format="jpeg" copyright_status="0" source="lib" _width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/SyQbFOWHaNdYANvSGBONibUaJjsYSgVyzzeLLt8wcmXwqw7icriaVNiculKNDMJ8L5O5QKjONY28zC0yGPto7QpRaA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; height: auto !important; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important; -webkit-touch-callout: none; -webkit-user-select: none;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　自始至终，我没有听到他们对孩子的一句鼓励，没有看到孩子脸上一点点开心的表情。<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(79, 129, 189);">50块钱，一杯贵些咖啡的价格，对这对父母来讲，根本不会构成什么经济压力，<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但是为了不浪费，他们宁愿自己的孩子冻着，也要压迫着他足额消费完这花了钱的时间。</span></span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　当我抱着宝宝离开时，那个小男孩看了我们一眼，继续低下头默默地捞鱼—因为还不到半小时。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　我不知道这个家庭，平日里是什么样子，但现在，他们三人脸上都写着“不高兴”。也许这对有经济头脑的父母觉得自己是明智的，因为他们没有让自己的孩子浪费钱。但是这个男孩回忆起这段捞鱼的经历，会幸福吗？</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　他的心里已经被爸爸妈妈的抱怨、恐吓、不耐烦占据，他能想到的恐怕只是“我下要去玩某某，一定要玩够时间，不能浪费钱。”<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(79, 129, 189);">又或许，这个男孩并不是个例，有很多孩子生活在“不能浪费钱的阴影下。”</span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section label="Copyright © 2014 playhudong All Rights Reserved." style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　成年人的世界里，有太多的计算，功利地计较一件事情值还是不值，要计算每一分钟的性价比，每一个人的可利用率。<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 112, 192);">但对于孩子，他们心中的最高性价比，就是开心。</span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 112, 192);">父母总想着给孩子最好的，却又不断地在计较，自己付出了最好的，孩子有没有给到最好的反馈。</span>花钱让你上了早教，你不能不好好学；花钱给你买了新衣服，你不能乱爬；花钱给你买了最好的奶粉，你不能不吃。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　那么你还你还记得你为了让孩子幸福、为孩子好的初衷吗？现在因为计较钱，让孩子失去应有的快乐，不是得不偿失吗？</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　对于金钱我们没有安全感，恨不得学会一切理财、赚钱技能，赚尽天下钱。<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 112, 192);">而这不过是穷怕了，是骨子里根深蒂固的穷病。可怕的是，并不是只有真正的穷人才会有穷病，经济富裕的家庭甚至富人也会有。</span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　像那对父母，他们真的支付不起这50块钱吗，这50块钱对他们而言极重要吗？<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 112, 192);">他们只是太怕浪费；<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">也许更因为，他们骨子里觉得，快乐不值钱。</strong></span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　我们的教育告诉我们要节俭，我们的成长经历让我们变得重视金钱，小心翼翼攒钱、理财，<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 1em; color: inherit; font-family: inherit; text-decoration: inherit;">但一定不要把这种用钱衡量一切的思维，影响到你的孩子。</span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/SyQbFOWHaNdYANvSGBONibUaJjsYSgVyz9ibUUibibsa8GibQbFmHwmBcjib6OoGsickMicQG8v2POfcgK0IkOlhEiaLZgw/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="0.7495219885277247" data-w="" url="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/SyQbFOWHaNdYANvSGBONibUaJjsYSgVyz9ibUUibibsa8GibQbFmHwmBcjib6OoGsickMicQG8v2POfcgK0IkOlhEiaLZgw/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" file_id="400379423" format="jpeg" copyright_status="0" source="lib" _width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/SyQbFOWHaNdYANvSGBONibUaJjsYSgVyz9ibUUibibsa8GibQbFmHwmBcjib6OoGsickMicQG8v2POfcgK0IkOlhEiaLZgw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1" style="margin: 0px; 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padding: 0px; height: auto !important; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; display: block; width: 22px !important; visibility: visible !important; -webkit-touch-callout: none; -webkit-user-select: none;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　拿我自己来说。我们家是一个大家族，堂哥堂姐就有八九个，我又是最小的那一个，宠溺自然不会少，但也因此，那些哥哥姐姐的旧玩具、旧衣服都会转移给我。我妈妈也就不再给我买新衣服，用她的话来讲“从这些衣服里挑挑，就够穿的了。”</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　但对一个爱美的女孩子来讲，那些旧衣服根本就不可能满足我爱美的心。可以自己支配生活费以后，我就开始丧心病狂地攒下每一分钱去买新衣服。工作后更是如此，最大的乐趣便是买衣服，总也买不够似的。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　买买买的时候，我特别的开心，特别的幸福，但把衣服拎回家以后，心里便又被内疚感填满，后悔自己买了那么多衣服，觉得该把钱用在其他地方。每次都这样的重复、纠结，从没有过酣畅淋漓、心满意足的购物体验，多买、错买的情况倒不少。</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 112, 192);">直到有一天，我意识到，这根本就是童年时我妈妈的心理模式。</span></strong>长大的我把妈妈“有旧衣服穿着凑合就得了，要把钱花在其他地方”的心理模式继承到自己身上来了，<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 112, 192);">我变成了自己最讨厌的”童年里的妈妈”。</span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　原生家庭的行为模式、思维习惯对子女的影响根深蒂固，大多数我们喜爱或讨厌的自己身上的某种行为，都可以在父母身上找到影子。</strong></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 112, 192);">　作为父母的我们，现在就要为孩子营造一个健康的原生家庭氛围，尽量不把自己以往不好的心理模式、行为习惯带到现在的家庭里，影响自己的孩子。</span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　不要总是一遍一遍告诉他这个玩具多么贵，要他过度珍惜了；也不要再反复强调自己加班有多辛苦、赚钱有多么难了，请不要让孩子过早背负上沉重的心理枷锁，<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(79, 129, 189);">他们的衡量标准只是“开心”，和这个东西的价码无关。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　爱孩子也不是无条件地满足他的物欲，更不能因为自己穷怕了，苦怕了，就满足他的一切要求。<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(79, 129, 189);">不要把自己童年的匮乏投射到他的身上，加倍地补偿给他。</span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　要给孩子树立正确的金钱观，可以等他对数字有概念后，给他一小笔零花钱，让他自由支配。浪费掉也好，买对了也罢，<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(79, 129, 189);">你的生活不会因为这一小笔钱受到什么影响，孩子运用金钱的能力、理财的技能却可以得到提升。</span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　所谓’屌丝”与真实的财富状况并不直接相关。屌丝是一种气质，富人里面的”精神屌丝“也有一大把。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong>　　不要用你所谓的节俭束缚住他的一切可能，从小被金钱束缚的孩子长大后只会成为和我们一样有“穷病”的精神屌丝。<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(79, 129, 189);">记住钱永远是为人服务的，而人的终极奋斗目标是开心幸福。</span></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;">　　<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">纪伯伦的这首诗一直是我提醒自己的座右铭，也送给你：</span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(79, 129, 189); max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你的儿女，其实不是你的儿女，他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(79, 129, 189); max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(79, 129, 189); max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">他们借助你来到这世界，却非因你而来，他们在你身旁，却并不属于你。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(79, 129, 189); max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(79, 129, 189); max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你可以给予他们的是你的爱，却不是你的想法，因为他们有自己的思想。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(79, 129, 189); max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-XIUMI" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(79, 129, 189); max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你可以庇护的是他们的身体，却不是他们的灵魂，</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(79, 129, 189); max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(79, 129, 189); max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">因为他们的灵魂属于明天，属于你做梦也无法到达的明天。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(127, 127, 127); max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">来源 | Queen主义（ID：Queenzhuyi）</span></p></section><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(127, 127, 127);">作者：梁爽。来源：Queen主义，为数万女孩提供服务的女神修炼顾问和互动平台，微博：Queen主义。</span></p>