<p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不知从何时开始，“女儿要富养”竟然成为一句备受追捧的育儿圣典。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我对这句话最早的印象来源于《蜗居》。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">剧中，宋思明东窗事发，郭海藻没了子宫，海藻母亲曾有一段点评式台词。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她说：<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">俗话说，男孩儿要穷养，女孩儿要富养。我这一辈子吃亏就吃亏在没钱，没为你们姐妹俩提供好点的生活。但凡你们小时候经历过富裕，都不会为眼前这些小恩小惠所迷惑。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">再后来，我见到的妈妈越来越多，我发现，她们可能资质不同，家境不同，但她们都是富养女的坚定支持者。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她们的确是这么做的。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">主要表现是给孩子花钱。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">喜欢的要买，邻居有的要买，同事有的要买，亲戚有的，也要买。有钱要买，没钱要买，缺的要买，不缺的也要买。还要带孩子学艺术，学舞蹈，学英语，搞特长，买好的，买贵的，买进口，买天然。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">最后还要总结汇报：你们看，我节衣缩食给我女儿最好的生活，我付出了我的全部啊！我是多么爱她！</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">养活一个女儿很容易，有吃有喝就行。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但养育一个女儿却不容易。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">养活和养育，这是两个不同的概念。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在养育一个女儿的概念下，富养女，不是你说的那个富。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">养育一个女孩儿，是帮助她塑造正确的、健康的三观，塑造独立的、完善的人格，帮助她保持清醒的头脑，具有准确的自我认知能力和对事物独立思考并作出正确判断的能力，从而让她能够拥有，最适合她自己的，正常的，健康的人生。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">简单来说，就是传说中的，有修养，有脑子。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在这一塑造和引导的过程中，需要的“富”是指，<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">花费更多的理性思考、智慧心血、时间付出、资源投入。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">而多数人普遍认同的“富”，顶多算是“资源投入”这一要素中的一个组成成分而已。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">养育一个好女孩儿，需要的投入比钱要大的多，也比钱要难得多。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">为什么偏偏是女孩儿，需要如此多的投入？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">因为相对于男孩儿来说，女孩儿更容易受到原生家庭环境的影响，比如会在潜意识里模仿她的母亲。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">更容易被个人情绪左右行为方式，如大姨妈期不可抑制的烦躁。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">更容易受到周围人的影响，如喜欢成群结队互相攀比。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">更容易遭受多重压力，比如又要上班又要带孩子。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">也更容易被社会上，许多看起来正常，实际却无比操蛋的观念洗脑，比如生得好不如嫁的好。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她们更容易轻易把自己代入一个性别为“女”的角色设定里，扮演一个随波逐流的弱者形象，在年华尚未老去的时候，成为一个大老娘们儿，最终，丧失一个“正常人”的基本特质。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在对抗这些影响的过程中，钱，远远不能起到决定作用，但大多数的人，只看到了钱。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">那么，真正起到作用的是什么？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">是言传身教，上行下效。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这意味着，首先，你要成为一个有修养、有脑子的人。在此基础上，完成你自身思想和行为的自省，完善，提高。最后，用更丰富、更理性、更智慧的方式去养育一个女孩儿。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">诚然，家庭环境优越的的女孩儿更容易变得美好，但让她美好的东西，并不是物质那么简单。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我从来不相信一个富有的大老娘们儿，能用她所能给予的“富”，养出一个不是大老娘们儿的女儿。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不管物质上如何富裕，这样的女儿依旧会在面对选择的时候，保持骄纵、蛮横、俗不可耐的个性，保持急功近利且锱铢必较的心态。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她依旧会拥有一颗世俗功利之心，在面对选择的时候，目光短浅、不明是非，不断索取，不断要求，不会用脑。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她同样会被小恩小惠所迷惑，同样会被男人骗，甚至还会在被骗之后，恶毒的诅咒全世界所有的男人，而不愿相信，是自己不堪。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">更可怕的是，与精神世界不匹配的物质享受带给她的，将是一颗高高在上的，骄傲且脆弱的公主之心，她只是永远活在自己搭建的世界里，孤独地等待世人的臣服罢了。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">公主为什么成为公主？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">因为她爸是国王，她妈是皇后。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你不是在富养女，你只是在重复塑造另一个你自己。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">对了，她很有可能还不如你。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">因为，她还有公主病啊。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 14px;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 14px;">作者 | 高小禾</span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 14px;">来源 | 孙小猪爱臭美</span></p>